All We Can Drink and Make Friend Can Come Alone Party in Shinjuku

Shinjuku after dark can feel like a lot when you are on your own. This Friday night social party gives you a simple way in: head to EXBAR TOKYO plus, pick a wristband color, and use games, drinks, and shared interests to start conversations with people from Japan and around the world. The event runs from 7:30 to 10 p.m., so it fits neatly into a Tokyo evening.

I like the color-coded wristbands, since they remove some of the awkward guesswork from meeting strangers. I also like the mix of Uno, Jenga, and language practice, which gives you something to do besides stand around holding a drink. The main consideration is that this is a standing-style party, and its social success depends on how willing you are to approach people and move between conversations.

Key points to know before booking

• Unlimited alcoholic drinks from 7:30 to 10 p.m. are included in the $70 price, along with fees and taxes.
• Color-coded wristbands help you find people looking for fun, language partners, romance, same-gender conversation, or another stated purpose.
• EXBAR TOKYO plus in Shinjuku provides the setting for a casual, international Friday-night gathering.
• Uno and Jenga make it easier to break the ice, especially if you arrive alone.
• Japanese and English language practice is part of the social focus, though the event is not presented as a formal lesson.
• Free cancellation up to 24 hours before the start time gives you some flexibility if your Tokyo plans change.

Why this Shinjuku party works for solo visitors

The hardest part of going out alone is often not finding a bar. It is finding a reason to speak to someone once you get there. This event deals with that problem directly by giving you a shared setting, common activities, and a wristband system that signals what kind of conversation you hope to have.

You can attend by yourself and still have an obvious opening line. Ask someone about their wristband color, invite them into a game, or introduce yourself as someone hoping to practice Japanese. That is much easier than walking into a regular bar and trying to guess who might welcome a conversation.

The crowd is designed to include Japanese locals and people from other countries. That mix matters. You may spend one conversation comparing Tokyo neighborhoods, then switch to language practice with someone who wants to improve English. The atmosphere is social rather than instructional, so you should expect informal exchanges instead of a classroom-style program.

I also like that the party does not force every conversation into the same mold. You can choose the kind of contact you want, from casual fun to language friends. The pink wristband is for people who identify as single, while yellow is for those who want to talk with the same gender. Blue allows you to write your own purpose, and the green and orange options focus on language friends and fun time.

Arriving at EXBAR TOKYO plus at 7:30 p.m.

The single location keeps the evening easy to follow. You are not being led between several bars or asked to keep up with a moving group. The party takes place at EXBAR TOKYO plus in Shinjuku, a district known for its nightlife and convenient public transport connections.

The scheduled hours are Friday from 7:30 to 10 p.m. Treat that window as the core of the experience. The included drinks are available during those hours, and arriving near the start gives you time to choose a wristband and get comfortable before conversations are fully underway.

Your admission includes all fees and taxes, plus alcoholic drinks on a free-flow basis from 7:30 to 10 p.m. Private transportation is not included, so you make your own way to the venue. Since the meeting point is near public transportation, this should be manageable, but you will still want to check your route before leaving your hotel.

The supplied details do not give a precise station exit, street address, or late-arrival procedure. I would save the mobile ticket and confirm the venue details before Friday evening. That small bit of preparation can prevent the classic Tokyo-night problem of standing on the wrong side of a large station with the clock ticking.

Picking the right wristband color

The wristband system is the most distinctive part of the event. At around 7:30, you select a color that reflects your purpose, then look for people wearing the same color. It turns a room full of strangers into a set of smaller, easier groups.

Here is what the colors mean:

• Orange: looking for fun time
• Green: looking for language friends
• Pink: single
• Yellow: hoping to talk with the same gender
• Blue: another purpose that you can write down

This is not a guarantee that every person with the same color wants exactly the same conversation. It is a conversation aid, not a matchmaking service or a strict group assignment. Still, it gives you a useful first filter, particularly if you are shy or arriving without a companion.

Choose the color that best matches what you really want. If you mainly want Japanese practice, green is the clear choice. If you are simply hoping to meet people and play games, orange may suit you better. Blue is useful if your goal does not fit the listed categories.

The pink option deserves a little care. It signals that you are single, but it should not be read as a promise of romantic introductions. The event has several purposes, and most of the evening is built around general conversation and social contact. Go in with an open mind rather than a fixed expectation.

Games give the evening a natural rhythm

Uno and Jenga may sound simple, but that is exactly why they work here. A game gives you a shared task, so the first few minutes do not depend on clever small talk. You can join a table, learn the rules, and begin speaking while doing something with your hands.

I find this especially useful for solo visitors who are unsure how assertive to be. You do not need to interrupt a serious conversation or make a polished introduction. Asking to join a game is enough. Once the game starts, conversation tends to spread naturally among the players.

Games also help if language ability varies. A person with limited English or Japanese can still take part, follow the basic action, and communicate through short phrases. That makes the event more approachable than a conversation-only mixer.

At the same time, games are not the entire activity. The party is meant to let you move around and talk with different people. If you become absorbed in one group for the full two and a half hours, you may miss the international mix that makes the event worthwhile. Try one game, then use the natural pauses to introduce yourself elsewhere.

Language practice without a classroom timetable

This event may suit you if you want to practice Japanese but do not want a formal language exchange lesson. The structure is loose. You meet people who are interested in talking, and the wristbands help you identify others who have chosen language practice as their purpose.

That informality can be a strength. You can ask for a few Japanese phrases, trade simple questions, or switch between English and Japanese as the conversation allows. You also gain the everyday benefit of speaking with people who have different backgrounds, rather than repeating exercises from a textbook.

It can also be a limitation. There is no stated lesson plan, proficiency grouping, or promise that you will receive a set amount of Japanese conversation. If you need focused instruction, correction, or a carefully managed exchange, this party is not the right format.

For casual practice, though, it offers a low-pressure start. I would prepare a few simple questions before arriving, such as where someone is from, how long they have been in Tokyo, or what part of Japan they like. A handful of ready phrases makes it easier to keep the conversation moving.

What the $70 price really covers

At $70 per person, this is not a cheap night out if you are measuring it only by the number of drinks. Its value comes from the combination of alcohol, access to a social setting, activities, and a built-in way to meet people.

All fees and taxes are included, and alcoholic drinks are available without a separate charge during the scheduled party hours. That makes your spending predictable. You do not have to keep ordering individual drinks just to remain part of the evening.

Still, unlimited drinks should not be the main reason you book. A regular Shinjuku bar may cost less, especially if you only want one or two drinks. This experience makes more sense if you place real value on meeting people, practicing conversation, and having a supported way to go out alone.

The strongest value is for a solo visitor who might otherwise skip Tokyo nightlife. Paying for a social framework can be worthwhile when it saves you from spending an evening by yourself or worrying about how to enter a local bar scene. If you already have a full group of friends and do not plan to speak with new people, the price will be harder to justify.

The standing format and the social tradeoff

The party uses a standing style, which makes it easier to move between groups. That is useful in a language exchange because you can change conversations instead of being tied to one seat for the whole night.

The tradeoff is comfort. Some people prefer a seated bar where they can settle in, order at their own pace, and talk with one or two companions. Here, you should expect more movement and a more open social flow. The format may be tiring if you prefer quiet evenings or need regular seating.

The standing setup also means you should take responsibility for your own evening. Move toward a new group if a conversation stalls. Look for a game in progress if you need an easy entry. Use the wristbands as a guide, but do not wait for the system to do all the work.

The event is advertised as suitable for most people, and confirmation is received at booking. No specific accessibility details are provided, so anyone with mobility or seating needs should check with the provider before paying.

The atmosphere: international, relaxed, and not too formal

The event’s strongest praised qualities are its friendly staff, easygoing mood, and mix of nationalities. One especially positive note singles out Quyn for helping make the evening enjoyable. The comments also describe a well-organized schedule, an accessible venue, good drinks, and activities that keep the party moving.

That combination suggests a setting that is more relaxed than a formal networking event. You are not expected to give a presentation or follow a complicated program. The goal is simple: drink, talk, play, and meet people.

The age mix may vary. One account noted that many people present were in their 30s on that particular night. That does not establish a fixed age range, so I would not book this expecting a student-only crowd or a specific generation. The international nature of the event is more dependable than any exact age profile.

The atmosphere also depends on the night. A party can feel full of conversation when many people arrive with the same social goal, but quieter if attendance is lighter. The experience has recorded 5 or more bookings in the previous month and a 99 percent recommendation rate from 359 ratings, which indicates strong overall satisfaction, but it does not guarantee a particular crowd size on your Friday.

Drinks, games, and responsible expectations

The fee includes alcoholic beverages throughout the 7:30 to 10 p.m. period. That is convenient, but unlimited service does not mean you need to drink heavily. In fact, staying clear-headed will help you make better connections and remember the people you meet.

The comments about the drinks are generally positive, with one person specifically calling them good tasting. Another describes the drinks as inexpensive in the context of the event. Those remarks point to a practical benefit, though the information does not specify the exact menu, brands, cocktails, beer, wine, or nonalcoholic choices.

If you do not drink alcohol, ask the provider about alternatives before booking. The included beverage information specifically names alcoholic drinks, and no separate nonalcoholic menu is given. This is one detail that should not be assumed.

The two-and-a-half-hour length is well judged for this kind of activity. It is long enough to speak with several people, but short enough to fit before or after another Friday plan. Do not plan a tightly timed dinner reservation immediately afterward if you expect to stay until the 10 p.m. finish.

Who should book this Friday night experience

I would consider this a strong match for:

• Solo visitors who want company without joining a sightseeing tour
• People hoping to meet Japanese locals and international visitors
• Anyone who wants casual Japanese or English practice
• Visitors who enjoy games and open social settings
• People who find ordinary bars intimidating when alone
• Anyone looking for a Friday-night activity in Shinjuku

It is less suitable for someone seeking a quiet seated dinner, a guided lesson, a private group, or a tightly planned bar crawl. It may also disappoint if your only goal is to maximize the amount of alcohol you receive for $70.

You should also be comfortable with a little social uncertainty. The color system helps, and the staff appear friendly and helpful, but no event can guarantee a perfect conversation or a particular romantic outcome. Book it for the chance to meet a broad mix of people, not for a promise that every exchange will be memorable.

Booking, cancellation, and a few practical checks

The experience uses a mobile ticket, and confirmation is sent when you book. Free cancellation is available when you cancel at least 24 hours before the local start time. Cancellations or changes made inside that 24-hour window are not accepted for a refund.

That policy is fair for a scheduled venue event, but mark the deadline in your calendar. Tokyo plans can shift quickly, especially if you are moving between neighborhoods or relying on a long evening at a major station.

Before Friday, confirm the exact meeting details for EXBAR TOKYO plus, check your route by public transportation, and decide which wristband color fits your goal. A few prepared Japanese or English questions will also help you start conversations instead of waiting for the perfect moment.

Should you book the Shinjuku party?

Book it if you are traveling alone and want a practical way to meet people without guessing how to enter Tokyo nightlife. The color wristbands, games, language exchange, and included drinks give you several ways to start a conversation, while the two-and-a-half-hour schedule keeps the commitment manageable.

Think twice if you dislike standing parties, do not drink, or prefer a quiet evening with a fixed table. At $70, the value rests on the social opportunity, not simply on the beverages.

For the right person, this is a useful first or second Friday in Tokyo. Arrive ready to move around, try a game, and speak with people outside your usual circle. That is where the event earns its price.

FAQ

Where does the party take place?

The party takes place at EXBAR TOKYO plus in Shinjuku, Tokyo.

When is the event held?

It is held on Fridays from 7:30 p.m. to 10 p.m.

How long does the experience last?

The scheduled duration is approximately 2 hours and 30 minutes.

Are drinks included in the price?

Yes. Alcoholic beverages are included on an all-you-can-drink basis from 7:30 p.m. to 10 p.m.

What is the price?

The listed price is $70 per person.

Can I attend alone?

Yes. The experience is specifically designed for solo visitors who want to meet people from Japan and other countries.

What do the wristband colors mean?

Orange is for fun time, green is for language friends, pink is for single participants, yellow is for talking with the same gender, and blue is for another purpose that you can write down.

Are private transfers included?

No. Private transportation is not included, though the venue is near public transportation.

Can I cancel for a refund?

Yes, if you cancel at least 24 hours before the experience start time. Cancellations or changes made less than 24 hours before the start time are not accepted for a refund.